In this modern era of fast food, the rarest thing is to meet someone you are willing to believe. He knows the meaning behind every word you say and the bravado behind every smile. He will give you a big hug when you need to care most.
Instead of being a good guy who cries bitterly and doesn't think about food and tea every night, it's better to turn around and be a more determined, rational and cold "bad guy" in your relationship.