"are you asleep?"

my boyfriend never quarrels with me.

I haven't seen him lose his temper at me in two years together.

Last year, on his birthday, I was temporarily left by my boss to work late. I was afraid he would be unhappy, but I was still looking forward to seeing him angry. It was almost noon when I left the company, and every red light on the road made me anxious. It was his first birthday after we were together, and his birthday was our anniversary. But he was asleep before I was ready to give him a present before I wanted to wish him another year older. The noise of my washing woke him up, and I heard him say, come back, go to bed, stay up late will become an ugly woman. As before, he was not unhappy. But I am not glad about this, on the contrary, some unreasonable losses come out of nowhere.

I know it's vexatious and unreasonable to say it, but what I want to see is that he cares a lot about me, cares about my breaking my appointment, is very stingy and unhappy, blames me, or pretends to be generous with poor acting skills. Not like this time, like the last time, like every time, as if nothing is enough to affect him, can still fall into a deep sleep. Reason tells me that these are not serious problems, but I don't like to be rational in my feelings.

some time ago, his ex-girlfriend called him to complain.

I already hate this kind of behavior, which is hard to find my ex. Am I so friendless? In addition, the complaint phone of the ex-girlfriend rang more and more frequently. Although he told me every time, sometimes I was there. But I don't think many people can accept the spiritual mentor of their boyfriend and tireless current girlfriend. When I complained to him about my dissatisfaction, he asked me, do you suspect that I have something to do with her? I said it has nothing to do with doubting you. I just think her behavior has gone a little too far. He said, "well if you're worried, I won't answer her phone in the future."

Yes, he didn't argue that there was no inner play, nor did he ask if I understood it. Under any problem, what he does is to point out the problem from a reasonable point of view, or to solve it quickly and effectively. There need not be too many emotional ups and downs. But do relationships only look at efficiency? we are lovers, not work partners. Is it possible that all the contradictions between us can only be dealt with on a case-by-case basis?

I am not so naive as to force him to quarrel with me on purpose, but I feel that two people together, need each other, ask for each other, and generously express this request, make a scene, show off, it is a kind of benign interaction, but also interesting. I like you so much. So I hope we can disturb each other forever. I hope we have ten thousand kinds of things that bind each other.

I have all kinds of joys and sorrows because of you.

I hope you can give back.

between couples, no quarrel does not mean there is no contradiction, silence does not mean understanding, we do not use mean language to separate each other further, but when we give up caring about the inner feelings of two people, it is like hiding in their caves in the face of danger, and greater confusion is hidden under temporary peace.

maybe people always feel sorry for unsynchronized feelings and unequal emotions. Your voice sounds like a powerful aphrodisiac to me. Then my appearance in your eyes, can not be just a black and white silhouette.

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"I won't move forward when you hover. I can't sleep when you stay up late." Xue Kaiqi sings well. If I can make you happy, you will worry about me and lose sleep. If you are afraid to lose and feel lonely and want to hold on to me, so much the better.

maybe one day you will also feel that it is very troublesome and good that there is someone in your well-organized life who makes you willing to disrupt everything.

love is asking for trouble. Nothing is light, but it is also very boring. Although your reason and calmness make you look heavy and heavy, I just want to throw you down unreasonably. Let you feel hot, nowhere to hide me, so that I can take off the cloak of the reason that you don't have to wear all the time.

We are so young, I just want you to be calm even if you want to be calm, and you can't be rational even if you want to be rational. I'm so good-looking, you don't want to do something wrong for once.