"can you give me another chance?"
If the feelings in the world can be clearly stated, and there is a scale that can easily break up with one stroke in the heart, then there will not be so many obsession with men and women in this world.
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if you can choose a relationship that is still fresh in your memory,
will you choose to continue or give up?
this seems to be a false proposition in itself.
because feelings are such things,
can never be decided by one party, and the entanglement and obsession of either party cannot be called love.
if all the feelings in the world can be expressed clearly, and if there is a scale that can easily break up with one stroke of the heart, then there will not be so many crazy men and women in this world.
I have a friend of a friend I have never met. They can be called soul mates. They have been in love for five years, but they broke up after less than half a year in a foreign country. The girl grew up alone in Beijing and fell in love with her mobile phone every day. He was not there when she was most sad and needed him most. The boy also wants to return home and give up his dream to be by her side. But the girl knows that she should not hinder his dream, so the greatest love is to give up. This is a love that makes both sides unforgettable, and in the end, it is doomed to become an open ending.
the boy runs a cafe in San Francisco called June Of Chelsea. If your name happens to be Chelsea, show me your name, then your cup of coffee will be free. The way to miss someone like this is really stupid and warm. But the days still have to go on, and the sun will still rise as usual. even if I can choose a relationship that is still fresh in my memory, I choose to continue, but I don't know what the end is. It may just drag on your relationship for a long time. It's better to make the memories better than to make your relationship look uglier.
those who can give up
maybe it's not because they don't like it, but
it may even be because they love it too much.
when we were young, we learned to hold the things we like firmly in the palm of our hands, but when we grew up, we let them go with the wind. This is a strange change on the way to becoming an adult.
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so if I asked you another question,
if you were given the choice to go home and stay in Beijing again, what would you do?
did you know that a city is like a relationship with a person? I have been in Beijing for seven years, and for seven years, I think Beijing is full of memories. He agrees with me on the three values, but he also has some small shortcomings. Dry haze makes me sad, but it is still a city loved by many people. Next year, I want to live in Shanghai or Hangzhou. This city is like a charming new boyfriend to me. Many unknowns are waiting for you to get along with him slowly to dig, but the city in his hometown is like a good old man, a spare tire, waiting silently, I am very relieved, I know he will always wait for me, waiting for me to go home tired.
it depends on who is more powerful.
if it were the 18-year-old me,
I would still stay in Beijing without hesitation.
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but now that I am 25 years old, I seem to be more nostalgic. I am more afraid of being lost, more afraid of loneliness, and more afraid of being sad. Everything is fine during the day, and I start to urge myself to go to bed early at night. I don't think about it anymore after I fall asleep.
some of my friends have gone to get married, and some of them have gone divorced, on and off, which makes me doubt my situation even more. We are busy we all want a sense of security and a reliable home. therefore, any city is the same, the city where there is a loved one is different, full of charm, that is the destination, otherwise, it is no different, a person comes and goes, always return is a traveler.
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I am an easy person.
the shopping cart is full of good things I want to buy.
my friend asked me,
if Singles' Day only allowed you to choose one thing in the shopping cart, which one would you choose?
I picked it out carefully as if it was hard to give up anyone.
is like a song in 256g old-fashioned mp3, which capital is reluctant to delete.
of course, those I love, others also love, but those popular things are not like lovers, good things in the ocean, I can also get a share of the pie, which makes me feel that it is still reliable to buy things, and things always make people happy.