"I hurt her, but she can always forgive me."

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"have you ever hurt your family?"

when I threw out this question, the answer I received was 100% yes.

that is to say, all the readers I sampled have more or less hurt their relatives in terms of language. and the higher the closeness index, the higher the injury index.

I have to admit that even though we are full of filial piety, we often brazenly express our dissatisfaction and accusation against them in words. It may be a plate of fruit brought by your mother when you play the game, and you impatiently refuse; maybe your father dresses a little shabby during the parent-teacher meeting, and your heart flashes a trace of lack of decency. Or when grandma wants to sit by the bed and chat with you, you don't want to hear the quilt; when you were a child, when you saw other children have something, they complained that their parents didn't have the money to buy it for themselves. All these are the content that many readers feedback to me, and what I choose is the slightest level.

of course, serious injuries are life-long regrets.

A reader told me that he had a big quarrel with his father about going abroad, slammed the door, turned off his phone and drove to Shanghai from Wuxi alone to find friends for relaxation. He wanted to be quiet for two days, but a Wechat message after turning on the phone made him regret his childishness. The father with heart disease checked into the ICU ward after the quarrel that day and told his mother before he came to consciousness: "you can't do it if your child's phone is off." Contact him to go home as long as he is safe. "

he says that now that he has become a father, he knows how much he hurt his father's words at that time: "now I will be very sad if my child contradicts me."

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injury is the norm between relatives, because they are close enough to know that the other person will forgive and tolerate their abominable, childish and immature behavior, so they take it less seriously. what's more, it's because we both know each other's pain points enough that we know how to make them feel pain. this is where we are stupid. is so self-righteous that it is misused.

recently, the fourth episode of the Yue GE miniseries "your Taste", "Sun Meat", played a cameo role. This episode tells a family story about injury. The young and ignorant child lost his grandmother forever because of his childishness, and the unique flavor that belongs to his grandmother.

after working on this show, I would like to mention the actor who plays my boyfriend in Vietnamese TV drama: Li Hongqi . He won the Best New Artist Award at the 52nd Taiwan Film Golden Horse Awards and Best Actor  at the 17th Taipei Film Festival for a film called "drunken Life and death".

this 90-year-old boy makes a cool first impression on the screen. Unlike many actors, he has two tattoos on his arm. I already know that after winning the prize, he went back to school as a graduate student in philosophy and formed a band. So between filming, I had a brief chat with him:

1. A book you've been reading lately? Favorite movie?

Li: Camus's "the stranger" and Kafka's "Metamorphosis" have been read repeatedly recently; the movie prefers Ashafahatti's "the Storm of the New Home".

2. Your favorite band? The type of music?

Li: Coldplay, in addition, I prefer blues and movie soundtracks. Sometimes during filming, listening to these soundtracks can bring me into the mood.

3. Do some tattoos on the body have any special meaning?

Li: there are two big tattoos on the body, from chest to arm, left and right sides. I like mysterious things, such as the Anubis of Egypt and the Sphinx in the tattoos. These mysterious things give me courage. Let nature take its course, just do what you like.

4. Is there any consideration for the choice of roles?

Li: I would prefer to interpret the life state of some "small potatoes" and explore people's psychological activities , which will be more conducive to acting and the control and understanding of characters, so it is also the reason why I choose the philosophy department. It will help me a lot to keep learning.

5. Like philosophy, formed a band as a drummer, directed a play, then in life is also such a cool person in the eyes of others?

Li: I don't think I'm cool, I'm stupid (laughter). I just want to do what I like well, and a lot of things are still of different opinions.

6. What changes have taken place in life after winning the Golden Horse Award?

Li: it's a great experience, and I'm more wary of myself, and I have to go back to my own individual all the time. is lucky to win the award, which is a kind of recognition, but I don't think I am the best one in my heart. I still have a lot to learn and experience in every experience.

7. What do you want to say to the readers of the aspirin museum after the show is broadcast?

Li: like in this play, it is my grandmother who has a great influence on my life. I was also brought up by my grandmother. In fact, the influence of everyone around you is very important. If you are satisfied with your life at the moment, then everyone who appears is like a compass, even if he is only 0 millimeters short.As long as a circle is a little bigger, it will change one of your angles. Every person who appears will change some of your existing ideas, even if it is a little bit, the distance will be ten kilometers away, so cherish everyone who appears around you, I am satisfied with my present life, I will think, fortunately, someone hit me at that time; fortunately, some people said that to me at that time. Even if I was very angry or unhappy at that time, there was a seed that was sown, and then I was satisfied with what I am satisfied with now. I hope you are the same, cherish everyone who appears in your life.

in fact, in retrospect, we are all good at being polite to strangers but unscrupulous to our loved ones. we know that the moment when we will be tolerated will always be greater than subtle condemnation, and we will always enjoy it. if we can apply the kindness to others to our loved ones, and the repeated consideration of talking to others, in the sentences we talk to our loved ones, I think we can reduce a lot of regrets.  

listening to today's music, I was in a daze for a few minutes at the end of this article. I suddenly thought of the taste of potato beef made by my grandfather, which was my favorite dish when I was in primary school. Shandong beef, Shandong potatoes, Shandong sun sauce, that is the taste of memories of family and hometown feelings, which is still unknown.

A person's body disappears from the world, but if anyone remembers his past, he is still alive.

I think Grandpa's potato beef still smells good, Grandpa is still there, otherwise he's always in his dreams.

so, what is your most unforgettable taste?

have a chat with Brother Yue in the comments.