"in the next relationship, I will find someone who loves me."
I won't find another one I love.
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there is a very old-fashioned question: how would you choose a person who loves you and someone you love.
A few days ago, I repainted Zhang Ziyi's film found a dangerous relationship, which was originally written in France and was adapted into a love story set in China. The prodigal son, played by Zhang Dongjian, is a well-off and high-ranking playboy in high society. he makes a bet with the woman played by Cecilia Cheung, who also likes to play emotional games. the bet is to sleep with the unworldly heroine played by Zhang Ziyi.
in this emotional competition, Zhang Ziyi, who has no experience, of course, has the upper hand immediately. From the refusal at the beginning to the impatience later, Zhang Dongjian skillfully used the routines that had been used on all kinds of girls to write love letters, shed tears, and "reveal his heart." he poured out his sorrow in a letter every day, and when the time was ripe, he deliberately ignored each other.
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some people say that girls' feelings are growing with each passing day.
finally, everyone wants to find someone who loves them.
under such a dense and strong emotional offensive, Zhang Ziyi couldn't help falling into it. She began to miss him, and there were people from his hometown, and she began to lose when she saw that he was not coming off the carriage; she began to care about him when she was eavesdropping at the door of his room; love happened so quietly.
it's just that the love she thinks is just his game.
just a game.
how many people have been caught up in this game, where the dazzling foreplay brings you into the game, and at the beginning, you are not given any choice of equipment, so you are hanged as soon as you hit the road, and in the end, you are black and blue and powerless to fight back. Those who match each other are the competition, and those with great disparity in strength can only be regarded as taking advantage.
in this dangerous relationship, the bet between Zhang Dongjian and Cecilia Cheung is a contest of equal strength, and the relationship between Zhang Dongjian and Zhang Ziyi is a showdown.
but who lost in the end?
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when Zhang Dongjian knocked on Cecilia Cheung's door and told her that she had dumped Zhang Ziyi and wanted to come to get the reward, Cecilia Cheung said silently and even with some disdain: you lost, because you fell in love with her.
I know a boy David. Because he was badly hurt by his predecessor, he flew up, partying every night, surrounded by big honey with hips and hips, and brought a different girl with him every time he went to a nightclub. He thought his life would go on like this, without distraction, responsibility, ease, and freedom.
then he met a girl with no bee waist, no buttocks, plainly dressed, well-behaved, and quiet. Two people know each other in a class, and the girl is smart, so he shamelessly hugs his thighs. Before exams, they often hang out in the library together, order takeout when they are hungry, and occasionally bring him cookies baked by herself.
David said he fell in love and lost his heart.
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at the end of the movie, when Zhang Dongjian went to find Zhang Ziyi, he was shot in the abdomen among a group of marching students. He curled up at the door, dragging his weak body, and finally spoke his heart through the door. When Zhang Ziyi realized that the door was wrong, she let the man leaning on his leg and shouted his name over and over again. The boy, who had never touched a leaf among the flowers, said, "when I am with you, I am very happy."
the question is: love you or you love, which one do you choose?
I think I will choose to love myself.
A film review said: in fact, Zhang Dongjian loves the role played by Cecilia Cheung, but Cecilia Cheung is too cold and selfish. It is black and blue all over. He needs someone who can make him feel safe. so his last words after seeing Zhang Ziyi were not "I love you", but "when I am with you, I am very happy."
people don't want to get hurt.
so in the end, I want to find someone who loves me.