"We're not pushing for marriage, we just want you to marry love."

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just now, I had another quarrel with my parents.

this kind of quarrel is not that violent, and it is easy to go on for a while with a cold war that you don't understand, ending with their "I don't know what's going on in your head every day."

I remember that when I lived in Deshengmen, it was because I worked on the edge of the second Ring Road. To facilitate my work, I could sleep a little more in the morning, so I moved from Tongzhou of the East Fifth Ring Road to the Second Ring Road. Who knew that I had just worked for half a year. I couldn't stand the pressure of working overtime every day and collapsed, and I went back to my empty home. I told myself again and again that my body would come first without working at night or during the day. So I chose to resign, and after more than a month of unemployment at home, I began to enter the army of job seekers again.

I have to say that I am not a worrying child. Every time I move, there are so many things that I seem to have moved out of a large family. Moving is mostly due to job changes, and every move is as tired as peeling off a layer of skin, not to mention parents who have been engaged in a stable job all their lives, they are very worried about me, and even my landlord sighed after the move, "Today's children, ah, like a boat, work is water. In the early years, we could work in the same unit for a lifetime, and we could endure hardships and endure anger." Today's children, ah, are like a boat, work is water, and in the early years we could work in the same unit for a lifetime, and we could endure hardships and endure anger. If the boss loses his temper a little, they can't stand it and will resign. Social insurance and house fund don't care much about anything at all. For example, my son, who is now in his thirties, doesn't find a girlfriend. A few years ago, we urged him, but now we don't dare to rush it. He has his idea, and he never tells us whether he is doing well or not. He has too little communication. It all depends on speculation. I don't know what you are thinking right now. "

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it turns out that not only my parents don't understand what I'm doing, lack of communication seems to be a common problem between us and our parents at this age, and maybe that's why we don't want to go home. We know they are good for us, but we don't know how to unbutton our clothes with them and have a good chat with them. what we pay attention to every day, the information we receive, our hobbies, the things that happen around us: belong to this fast-paced era and a heart that yearns for freedom.

it's almost Spring Festival again. My parents asked me when I was going home. I looked at the full worksheet and hurriedly went to the high-speed rail website to grab tickets. As a result, I was robbed clean, so I went to see the plane ticket again. My expensive wallet trembled, so I could only find an excuse to prevaricate. My parents knew it was difficult to buy tickets, so they urged me to buy them a long time ago, but my procrastination has been rampant. With a lot of work on hand, it seemed like a magnet to push the way home.

who knows the phone call the next day, my mother told me that she went to the high-speed railway station to buy a ticket for me, but she didn't get a ticket, so she asked her colleague to teach her how to buy a ticket online, but she helped me to get an extra first-class seat, so she helped me grab one. My mother said, "hurry home. There are your two cats at home. your house is cleaned every day for fear of hiding ashes." you have your favorite food at home. Come back and cook for you three meals a day. Adjust your schedule and don't stay up late. Parents do not ask you for more achievements, as long as you are healthy and healthy.

I cried when I hung up the phone.

I didn't expect that when I was at school, I was not afraid of anything, and there was nothing worth crying about, but I risked my life more and more as I got older, and I became more and more moved by a mouthful of hot rice, a glass of warm water, and a dress covered for me by Rest lying on the table. I even miss my mother yelling "get up and have breakfast" every three minutes in my ear every morning after coming home. I miss my mother sternly telling me, "be sure to wear long johns. Before you get old, it will be too late to regret it. The knee joint is very important."

they will be very careful not to mention your love life, from "urging marriage" to introducing you to the children of their friends and asking if you like them. they learned to use the various functions of Wechat. They learned to use Kuaibao to send me some news happening around me to find information to chat with me. Even my grandmother began to chat with me by video, but she was so cute that she couldn't switch between front and back cameras.

in the beginning, I said that I quarreled with them because they "found" a good boy for me to give me. I was very excited. I said, if you think so, how about I rent you a boyfriend to go home?!

when I hung up, my mother sent me several pieces of Kuaibao news from Wechat, including a Beijing haze, asking me to wear a mask, a piece of news about Huang Xiaoming basking my baby, and a piece of news about Lin Yoga confessing his love to his girlfriend, which also wrote about Lin Yoga cooking red bean soup for his girlfriend. There is another piece of news about the marriage of Shu Qi and Feng Delun, which is old news, but I guess he must have collected it after reading it and waited to send it to me. Then my mother said, "We use Kuaibao to pay attention to the information around you every day so that we can know more about your environment." Mom didn't urge her to get married. You see Shu Qi didn't get married until she was in her forties. Looking at the picture, she was very happy. We also hope you do. you are in Beijing. We just want someone to take care of you. Just like Lin Yoga, maybe we are satisfied that someone can cook soup for you. Only when we find such a person, can we rest assured. We also hope you can find the person you like, no matter how old you are. Finally, as long as we can marry love, the other party loves you, we will be relieved. "

they are trying to get through my city. The news, to integrate into my fast-paced life, into my days of eating steamed buns and soy milk on the way to work, and into my little dream in a haze, but I blindly one-sidedly understand their so-called "urging marriage" and the real meaning of asking me to be down-to-earth. maybe only when you hit a brick wall or the most vulnerable moment, do you know that your parents are the harbor where you are most likely to hurt and forgive you.

Chinese New year, just like them, open Kuaibao to see the news of the small town that belongs to our family. I haven't been home for a long time. My hometown is changing too fast. Maybe we don't know much about the newly built roads and buildings. Like them, maybe we should take a look at the place where we grew up and what happened every day. Fortunately, we also had a chat with them during the Spring Festival.

think about the way they try their best to talk to us.

sometimes they feel a little distressed and cute.

when we do as much as they do for us,

maybe we won't feel embarrassed during the Spring Festival.