At the age of 30, make a decision for life.

in the beginning, I slowly decided in my mind that I should only leave my time to those who think you are important to each other. I don't want to waste my good time exploring and drifting away from each other. Because it has gone through the stage of waiting [maybe there will be better], it doesn't matter the best or the worst, this is everything. Because it has gone through the stage of fear [miss], if you miss it, it is just not important enough.

recently, I have been thinking about how I should spend my 30 +. The above paragraph is a decision made by myself.

many people say why I still have a bad time after watching so much chicken soup. I would like to say that chicken soup has always been a comforting function, not a transformative function. If you don't decide within yourself, it will always stay at the "I know" level.

this year, I put aside everything and focused on one thing, that is, raising children. Since he was born, I was so panicked that I didn't even know how to hold him. Up to now, I haven't been alarmed by all the conditions. I think, even if I lose my job in the future, I will still be a very qualified sister-in-law. Every step of nurturing, I fumbled a little by myself.

this is the decision I made when I was pregnant. Many people, why it is difficult to cope with postpartum depression. It was during a long pregnancy, and they didn't make a good decision for themselves.

I was ready, so I decided. This decision has nothing to do with sacrifice, but I have decided to feel the initial process of his life growth and to give him the security and love he needs when he is most confused and has no sense of security after he came into the world.

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I am firmly opposed to the so-called American parenting method. Babies should not be forced to learn the rules of adults. I can't imagine how much trust he has in his subconscious mind when he is forced to accept the rules before he knows love.

at first, I was tired and tired by his sleep problems every day, and I tried to test whether I needed crying immunity. Later, my husband said, if he craves breast milk, let him eat well, can't he? At that moment, I felt relieved. Then, every night, he was by my side, we slept at the same pace, he ate and slept vaguely, and I slept all the time. Both of them are happier. For the next eight months, after I decided to be weaned, he was able to sleep on his own all night.

I can strongly feel the impact of this natural upbringing on his health. He knows to express his needs, but he will not need to be excessive, because he is not short of love and company. He can connect with strangers without obstacles and express his curiosity and desire to communicate. They say jelly beans give off a warm masculine temperament. I think there is nothing better than this.

some mothers will ask how they plan to educate their children. Why education. In the process of accompanying him, I felt that the child was my best teacher and the best teacher to guide me to feel and appreciate the magic of life. This sense of experience makes me feel that the whole process is very fulfilling.

at first, there were times when I was out of control during the month. I felt that everything was under control by this little guy. When he cried, you had to let go of everything. It is easy for adults to fall into depression because of this sense of being out of control and try to regulate them, which is why American parenting is popular and even considered successful.

later, I read a lot of mother's parenting stickers and a lot of parenting books. I concluded that crying is the way that life is born to express needs, and this is the communication between the baby and the mother. He's telling you: mom, I peed. I’m hungry, Mom. Mom, what's wrong with me? Mom, I need you. He doesn't know other expressions, he only knows how to express them in this way. This is why every child born, only can cry, and cry loudly, the delivery doctor will breathe a sigh of relief.

crying is the first emotional expression learned by human beings. it is not wrong, fragile, or sick. Even in adulthood, we only cry to people who are close to us, don't we? If a person can not cry, will not shed tears, that is called sick.

my best friend said that she felt like spending time with her children and living a new childhood. I mean, it's probably deeper than this.

it was in this "re -" process that I made the first decision. I found that I don't need so much to be happy. Why can't you be a simple and pure person? That won't affect you anything.

in the 20-30 years old of your life, you will desperately want to take, you want to get a lot, learn a lot, absorb a lot, for fear of missing it. However, when it comes to 30, it is time for the most subtraction. Of course, the premise is that you have the ability and strength to support you in subtraction.

my luck is that I can get to the time when I have the ability and strength to do subtraction.

I like what my goddess Aunt Mei said-I am no longer patient with certain things, not because I have become proud, but because my life has reached a stage. I don't want to waste any more time on things that make me feel unhappy or hurt me. I don't want to please people who don't like me or those who love me or not or smile at people who don't want to smile at me. Most importantly, I don't have the patience to deal with people who don't deserve my patience.