Du Jiang | I am your fish.

recently, I was chasing a variety show by iii, "wonderful Party", which is the most wonderful and ridiculous interview show with stars in the history of ice. It was easy and funny to chat with the stars about recent developments and stories on the road of performing arts. Originally, the mood of haze was not very clear recently. I wanted to chase two variety shows. After watching it, I found that I was very happy.

one of the things that impress me particularly is the new concept of husband and wife /couple put forward by du Jiang.

du Jiang mentioned in the program that "he is a fish, and his wife is a fish pond. Only when the fish is in the water is free, happy, and alive, but no matter how free she is, she can never get out of her fish pond." this leads to the "law of fish ponds."

Junichi Watanabe wrote a classic sentence in Anesthesia, saying that family reunions and family reunions all require the existence of a wife in the core position. In other words, a woman is a very important link to maintaining a family. However, not all men can understand this meaning. that's what makes me a fan of Dujiang Road. A high-quality man knows how to pay attention to the status of his partner in a relationship. this is the point that I think du Jiang is a good man.

The fish pond is not so much a wife it can be compared to the marital relationship between du Jiang and Huo Siyan, which can only be established in such a prescribed love situation. Du Jiang is a fish belonging to Huo Siyan. It is belonging. Only in this kind of belonging can you feel free and comfortable. In short, the so-called marriage is not just a combination of men and women who love each other. They play the role of father, mother, or friend to each other, show childlike innocence when necessary, and so on are all part of the marriage. without these, it would hardly be a real marriage. Dujiang Huo Siyan is an enviable family relationship, and a lot of tacit understanding is a real expression of emotion. for example, when I was watching the history of romantic demise, the opposite play of du Jiang and Huo Siyan could see that their relationship was very good, and many of them were understood by their eyes.

there is a description in Paradise lost.

means that no matter what kind of relationship it is, it will reach a climax sooner or later.

from acquaintance to mutual love, and then to uncontrollable union, this process is very smooth, lovers often do not know it themselves, and the burning relationship makes them forget all the unhappiness in the world. however, at the moment when the love escalates to its peak, they suddenly find a canyon ahead and often come to a standstill. When the two were immersed in happiness and thought this was the Garden of Eden of love, they realized that there was a thorny wilderness ahead, so they became nervous.

so it is also very important to take care of each other's emotions to add a dose of clarity to the relationship or marriage. In the wonderful Big Party, du Jiang revealed that apart from the usual mutual concern between him and Huo Siyan, they also have small tastes against each other in their daily life, which can greatly enhance their relationship.

although they complained to each other, they were stuffed with a mouthful of dog food.

I think the most successful place for a woman is to find a good man and have a stable and lovely family, while the most successful place for a man is to be a free fish in a woman's fish pond, as du Jiang said.

the standard of a good man now is that a man like du Jiang can be relied upon and down-to-earth like a big man, and even if he has a baby, he is still a big boy of the other party.

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du Jiang put forward this fish pond theory in "wonderful Party" is very wonderful, "I can only feel free and happy in your fish pond", fish should feel free in the wider waters, but when we meet the right person, all the waters except her become a dangerous situation. It was you who gave me the sense of security that made me stay in your gentle hometown.

Li Yinhe has such a passage, she said, "Don't be afraid of losing me. I'd love to be with you, but if I'm free to be with you, you can keep your freedom." When I read the newspaper and read the reference, I feel more and more that the era of vows of love has passed. We do not want adults, no matter now and in the future, let us put them aside, we are just two people, are two souls wandering in the universe, we do not want to be alone, come together, others have nothing to do with us, okay?

as du Jiang said, I am a free fish only in your fish pond.

I hope we can all find people like du Jiang.