I can only love you so far.

friends

A friend introduced the new man, a tall boy who was good at chatting and liked him after several dates. It's just that the place he wants to develop in the future is too far away from where I want to go. When I was separated, I said to him, "We are not suitable. You should find a girl whose goal is the same as yours."

he looked at me and smiled. His face was very good-looking, and there was some flavor of Zhang Zhen in the flickering light and shadow of the restaurant. To tell you the truth, a few years ago, I would definitely have been very attracted to the boy in front of me, but now I sit quietly in my seat and listen to the good-looking boy say, "you are really a very rational girl."

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when I went shopping a few days ago, I passed a new clothing store where Eason Chan was playing songs by Eason Chan. The melody was too familiar and the lyrics were too piercing. I thought to myself: maybe I can see you again sometime.

I remember that in the past, when I didn't love so rationally, I excitedly called and sent a message to everyone saying that you had confessed, turned your status from beginning to end, and then gladly liked your first status. Under the various love states seen on Weibo, Ate, your name, with a series of kissing expressions.

I didn't love so rationally before.

everyone

the older people get, the more rational they become, and the more they want to know where everyone is in this relationship. Maybe we all forgot that we quietly liked a person at that time, and we could travel around half the city just to see him from a distance when he was out of school; to watch his status carefully on social networking sites for fear that others might find out by accidentally clicking his praise; when we heard about him when our friends were chatting, we immediately pretended to be silent and didn't care about him, but still carefully captured every detail of the story.

someone asked me, "have you grown up?"

at that time, love was reckless, threw himself on him with a hot head, and worshipped his every word and reply as if it were an edict. When he asked a question, he wanted to tell him all the things in his previous life and this life. when he said he was tired, he immediately cared about whether he had a good rest or not.

at that time, my friends said that I was too much like a child. Only children give regardless of gain or loss, and it doesn't matter if there is nothing in return. At that time, it was probably the most emotional and lovely time for me in love. In the current relationship, it is often labeled as rational, and some people say that it is really envious that every relationship can be analyzed so rationally.

I think  sometimes I really want to send you a message saying, "I miss you", but I know that after such an impulse, I can't bear the result. I can only bear to miss and tell myself that I will probably forget when I wake up tomorrow.

all these years of love, the more love, the more tired and exhausted, but in fact, it does not pay much more than before. Now I will feel that an active message, an active phone call and an active invitation should be exchanged for more care and care. It's just that now everyone seems to be very tired and no longer willing to take the initiative, so after a few days of indifference, they each have a new date.

is becoming more and more rational and more and more like adults. Jacky Cheung sings in that song, "it doesn't matter when adults break up." Now I have more and more experience. Ex or ex-ex, or even ex-current girlfriend, no longer take it to heart, feeling that it is a rare and ordinary thing.

everyone will fall in love, will inevitably break up, think a person can only secretly think quietly, afraid that others say you can not let go, but also like a child.

but whether these changes are good or bad, do you occasionally want to go back to the age when you were desperate at that time?