I don't want to go with you.

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I don't know if you have gone to see "La La City". A few days ago, I went to the cinema with my best friend to see "La La City". Originally, I thought it was a flash song and dance, but I didn't have many moods and a sense of substitution. As a result, at the end, when the heroine began to talk about her dreams, I agreed: "to those dreamers, even if they are a little stupid, to the heartache, to the chaos we have created."

after reading it, my friend tipped me off with a Polaroid photo taken by my ex-boyfriend in the United States, one of which is his current girlfriend. My friend said, if you had followed him to the United States, you would have been photographed now. she asked me if I regretted it. I said I didn't regret it at all, but I just felt sorry that it was not the right time for the two of them.  I'm also going to publish a book and open a coffee shop. I can't give up what I want to do and follow a man around. I have to respect my ideas more. If I don't compromise easily, he will be more likely to be sentimentally attached to me.  I don't want to bet on a relationship by giving up my dream. I am finally disliked by people with empty hands:

I used to be very kind to him because he put away a lot of edges and corners and gave up a lot of possibilities.  the result is that the boy, who has been trained for many years, is never too considerate to know the hot and cold, and does not enjoy the reward, but he knows how to be better for his next one.

my friend told me that he graduated from you and knew that girls would not leave only if they were kind to them.  it was just a pity that they had spent the best time of their youth in four years.

I went to Blue Harbor for dinner with my friends the other day. We found a quiet restaurant and listened to her tell her recent stories. She told me that a former colleague, the girl's family conditions are good, after being chased by her boyfriend sugar-coated shells, she did not hesitate to quit her job in Beijing for three years and followed her boyfriend to Shanghai. She likes this job, and it is rare for her to have a job that makes her willing to run it seriously every day. At that time, she was already a small manager.  went to Shanghai, and the two became OK. It didn't mean that there was no way back. Everything had to start all over again.  this relationship is very risky. After all, they have only been together for two months.

the result is that less than three months after going to Shanghai, the two broke up, and the girl didn't find a job to cook for the boys at home every day, just like a full-time wife who got married. As a result, the reason for the breakup was that the girl ordered a slightly expensive cake, and the boy said, "I work so hard every day. If you don't save, why should you be so kind to yourself?" Hearing this, the girl was so cold that she packed her bags and went back to Beijing a few days later.

she is not the only one, there is no lack of colleagues and friends, give up their job to go abroad with their partner or go to another city,  can sound good together, but if not together, there may be nothing in the end. Have you ever thought about how you treat yourself when you are so kind to others? Have you wronged yourself? Why don't we be nice to ourselves?

you can't survive without any solid foundation of love.   

We should be nice to ourselves.

in the past, I could write a report when I gave up Rest for my boss's KPI, but now I can buy a better pillow for my sleep so that I don't doze off at work. In the past, I could choose a restaurant that I didn't like to cater to my colleagues' tastes, but now I can buy a better pot to make my appetite better, so I don't have to sweat spicy lunch. In the past, I could go through fire and water to help a person in his city. Now, I would rather stay in a city where I am good at and continue to complete my favorite work and dreams. In the past, I could spend a month's salary to give a new mobile phone to please the other person. Now I can buy a new mobile phone for myself, give my best gift, and give my partner the best of myself. Just like Liang Huan in the video, he always gives himself the best:

interestingly, Liang Huan in the video buys himself a new mobile phone and the process of unpacking.  is especially like the process in which we are happy when we buy good things for ourselves.  Video uses ASMR technology, also known as the most exciting part of the brain, brain massage, through this 3D strong sound, lets us produce a unique and pleasant sense of stimulation. The sound of tearing off the plastic film outside, lifting the lid of the box, taking out the phone, tearing off the protective film, opening the phone, vibrating, and so on, sounds like a fascinating voice to please yourself.

now that you have been nicer to your ears,

you can be nicer to yourself.

for example, buy yourself a gift and buy a new mobile phone on JD.com.

Last year's mobile phone is no longer worthy of this year's excellent you.

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is not worthy of the better you today.