It turns out that you cherish me so much that you have never heard of me in love before.

1.

in this Life and this Life, Hu Lancheng said that the ancients decided that the beginning of spring was the beginning of spring, and the grass was still yellow, but they did not know how they got green. The color of the water is more difficult to tell, but the wind on the surface is different. It's like Jia Baoyu asking Lin Daiyu in A Dream of Red Mansions, "when did you pick up the Liang Hong case?" Also seems to be me and the same thing, when is the love? So distinct and indistinguishable.

"since when is the love so clear and difficult to tell?"

after reading this book, you can also taste some bitterness by speculating on this sentence over and over again.

there are a lot of people around me like this. Occasionally, at a certain moment when they go home, after being single for a long time, they even think of the old man and don't think that he has any shortcomings, but they still have lingering fears. Falling in love is like ten years of practice, physically and mentally exhausted.

however, in order not to look back on the past like watching the fire from the other side, even if I want to get rid of the confusion of celibacy, I feel refreshed and refreshed, listening to the rain instead of being in the rain.

2.

there is a girl here, temporarily called A, I want to vaguely say,

this is her, but it could be me, it could be you.

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A this girl and I have common friends and are my college classmates for four years.

she talked with a boy for more than two years, which should be the only relationship at the end of college. Both of them stayed in Beijing after graduation.

they go back and forth, on and off, and after a quarrel, they feel inseparable and then become a habit, and then make up again for two years. They have never had differences because of the intervention of a third party, but there are always some small things to reflect the big things and rise to a higher level.

for example, the boy's circle of friends never posts a picture of her, and he doesn't see that the boy has a girlfriend. I heard him tell his friend that the reason for not sending the photo was that he was afraid of deleting the trouble in case he split up in the future.

because of this, I divided it once.

for the second time, because the boy hand slipped two likes on two earlier Weibo posts of a pretty girl. She saw it on the Weibo page. Women's jealousy and intuition always felt uncomfortable and broke up again.

3.

in theory, there should be no omni-directional selfless investment in the relationship.

A No, she cooks for the boy every morning and treats his life like his mother. She is also very beautiful and has a kitchen in the hall. Because of the boy, A gave up a very good job in Shanghai and stayed in Beijing to get a salary of 4,000 yuan.

the last breakup was due to the intervention of a third person I hadn't seen for a long time.

the boy said that she felt too much pressure to be with A. she packed her things and left without saying anything, even feeling tired looking back.

the present situation is that the boy and the girl have also split up and have been together for more than two months. The reason for the breakup is that they still can't forget A, and deliberately send a message to their mutual friends and ask them to tell A.

however, she has something in her heart, and she doesn't dare to get involved in this anymore.

fin.

Huang Weiwen wrote lyrics to Yang Qianwei's song and said,

so you cherish me so much that you have never heard of me in love before.

Yes, where do those treasures go when we are together?

maybe it becomes the confidence of a person.

Don't do too much in a relationship, it really breaks a person's heart, and all honest reparations with feelings become hindsight and don't make any sense. When I was together, I didn't hear you cherish me so much as you say now.

I was ready to ride a donkey to find a horse at any time, so I missed me.

it's hard to go back.

people still can't get used to it.