Let go. He's not right for you.

Mrs.

F came to me to talk about her ex-boyfriend. They have been entangled with each other for almost two years.

she cried red in front of me, just like so many times before.

I finally said to F, "Let go, he's not right for you."

F's ex-boyfriend is not a scumbag, at least he has been concerned about F since the breakup. When F was drunk, he drove F home for more than half an hour, settled her, and then went home by himself. He also often asked F's friends how he was doing and how he was doing. I always thought that such two people, how could it be impossible to get back together and get back together? Later, the boy talked to me for a long time, about what happened between them, and finally, he said, "strong>" it's not that I don't like it, it's just inappropriate, and it's not good for anyone to go on. "

I remember that I used to like a boy very much, but we didn't have a chance to get together. I asked my friends about him every day. At that time, a friend of mine loved me so much that she told me, "I can help you find out everything about him, but he is not suitable for you."

in the past, I also thought that it was enough for two people to like together, and nothing could be solved by liking two people. But love is sometimes so illogical, the maintenance of a relationship does not depend on one party, or how much love both parties pay, too many relationships are not loving, but can only stop there, one step closer or one step back is superfluous.

at this moment in the world, there should be many stories of love, persistence, reluctance, letting go, and many sad stories about parting. not all the people in those stories don't love anymore, but more often they have to let go when they fall in love.

having dinner with a sister she knew, she mentioned her first love in high school. She said that the boy is now studying in the American rattan school Ph.D., and is now a very good boy, and they occasionally write letters to greet each other. She said that he is now single, is in no hurry to get married, and wants to find a suitable person among the girls around him. I asked the sister, "Don't you want to be with him again?" She smiled and said, "We were together at that time, and we already knew it was inappropriate, and now this distance is best for both of us." If he needs my help, I will try my best to help him, but I will not enter his life again. "

A person will meet countless other people in his life, like a lot of people, and pass by more people. Not every love can have a result, and not everything needs to know the end. Love is a very lucky thing, but also those who think of will unconsciously raise the corners of the mouth of the past, chat with others inadvertently mentioned names, often accustomed to "you know, we at that time," the beginning of the story, is the evidence that that person existed worthy of your treasure.

you are still dormant in a certain vein in my mind, openly trying to break through my lacrimal glands, of course, I like you very much, but love is not a matter of Happy Ending just by liking each other, and life is not as unlimited as a fairy tale. We have to think about too many things, two people's characters, two people's hobbies, two people's life circle. Maybe at the beginning of love, we can compromise with each other, try to adapt to each other's life, run-in, there are contradictions, quarrel, indifference, far away.

Let go, it may take a long time, maybe there will be a few nights of tears, and maybe you have to compete with yourself for a while. You hold a piece of ice tightly in your hand, and the palms of your hands begin to tingle and turn red, but you are reluctant to throw it away. You, ah, are such a stubborn person.

Love is a process, but not the ultimate goal.

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Let go, he's not right for you.