Never pinch "soft persimmons"
Beautiful morning light, accompany you to read.
there is a persimmon tree by the side of the road.
the tree is full of persimmons, hanging high on the branches, looking very sweet and delicious.
A man passed by and wanted to pick some persimmons to quench his thirst and wrap his belly, but he chose the soft, ripe persimmons.
soft persimmons splash out the juice with a gentle pinch.
as a result, I didn't pick a few persimmons, but my good wardrobe was soiled.
I finally picked a few of them, and after a few days, on the way, the soft persimmons were not long on the top, and they were rotten.
life is like "pinching persimmons ". If you keep staring at the soft ones, you will only get worse and worse.
01
"Laigentan," says, "the lowland becomes the sea, and the lowly man becomes king."
A person is used to pinching soft persimmons and doesn't know the sky and the sky. Gradually, he doesn't pay attention to others, and it's easy to be supercilious and conceited.
in the company, because of a mistake, they hurriedly criticize the newcomers in the office and are grumpy;
in the business field, they cling to small flaws, make cynicism to the suppliers, and are full of hostility.
No one knows that this has exposed the biggest flaw in human nature.
it is easy to be domineering, but it is difficult to defend the Tibetan front.
treat others less conceited, more considerate, and loving.
Don't pinch persimmons and keeping humble is a person's greatest wisdom.
at a party, Feng Xiaogang, who was slightly drunk, suggested that Miao Miao, the actress of "Fanghua", dance dance to cheer her up.
coincidentally, the actress was dressed inconveniently, but in front of the big director, she spoke lightly and was difficult to refuse, but she didn't want to say yes, so she was embarrassed for a moment.
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although the action is small, you can see a person's self-cultivation.
like an evergreen tree in the entertainment circle, Chen Daoming has no intention of looking down on some young actors. He once said:
"those who go up the mountain should never look down on those who go down the mountain, because they have had a good time.
people on the mountain should never look down upon the people at the bottom of the mountain because they will always climb up and be themselves."
in this world, no one is born that "soft persimmon", and no one will be strong forever.
Don't belittle others and don't take yourself too seriously.
do not show off by trampling on the decency of others, even though you are high, you still have a humble heart.
02
when visiting Peking University, a professor from the University of Chicago said:
"the basic requirement of the University of Chicago for students is to do difficult things, because if one wants to achieve something, he must do those difficult things."
people who dare to face up to difficulties, comfort may come later and slower, but the road under their feet will be more stable and farther.
this is like a hard persimmon, which is not so sweet for the time being, but it can last longer.
while soft persimmons may not take shape before they are in the mouth.
in life, only people with "hard persimmons" in their hands can have the last laugh.
Ouyang Xiadan is a famous host in China and the youngest generation of "national face" in the history of CCTV.
probably behind all the brilliance, there has been a dark and difficult time.
but unlike most people, she chose the hardships and difficulties Ouyang Xiadan experienced on her own initiative.
before joining CCTV, Ouyang Xiadan was once the head of Shanghai TV. He had a house and a car and was valued by the unit. It can not be said to be a big hit, but his days were comfortable enough.
at that time, an opportunity to enter CCTV appeared in front of her, and she was hesitant.
"if you want a comfortable life, stay in Shanghai; if you want to challenge yourself and see how much unknown potential you have, go to Beijing."
Ouyang Xiadan decided to resign, and became a Beijing drifters , resolutely throwing away the "soft persimmon" that was easiest to handle.
she lives in an old house without heating. She is not accustomed to soil and water, is not used to eating, and is alone.
what's more, because of her low seniority, she can only be regarded as a "temporary worker" of CCTV. She doesn't even have an access card, and she is under great pressure and fierce competition among her peers, so she often can't keep up with the pace.
at first, Ouyang Xiadan's body could not hold up at all, so he often ran to the hospital for a hanging injection after work.
however, after a stage of fierce competition and a sharp increase of pressure, Ouyang Xiadan's talent was greatly stimulated. Later, his work became more and more handy and his popularity increased day by day.
says: "every man is the architect of his destiny."
jumping out of the comfort zone and not pinching the soft persimmons of life, that is the beginning of self-breakthrough and self-transcendence.
03
there is a good saying: the old woman eats persimmons.
only dare to haggle over things with people who are weaker than themselves, and such people often do not have a good life on their own.
02
when visiting Peking University, a professor from the University of Chicago said:
"the basic requirement of the University of Chicago for students is to do difficult things, because if one wants to achieve something, he must do those difficult things."
people who dare to face up to difficulties, comfort may come later and slower, but the road under their feet will be more stable and farther.
while soft persimmons may not take shape before they are in the mouth.
Ouyang Xiadan is a famous host in China and the youngest generation of "national face" in the history of CCTV.
probably behind all the brilliance, there has been a dark and difficult time.
but unlike most people, she chose the hardships and difficulties Ouyang Xiadan experienced on her own initiative.
before joining CCTV, Ouyang Xiadan was once the head of Shanghai TV. He had a house and a car and was valued by the unit. It can not be said to be a big hit, but his days were comfortable enough.
at that time, an opportunity to enter CCTV appeared in front of her, and she was hesitant.
"if you want a comfortable life, stay in Shanghai; if you want to challenge yourself and see how much unknown potential you have, go to Beijing."
Ouyang Xiadan decided to resign, and became a Beijing drifters , resolutely throwing away the "soft persimmon" that was easiest to handle.
what's more, because of her low seniority, she can only be regarded as a "temporary worker" of CCTV. She doesn't even have an access card, and she is under great pressure and fierce competition among her peers, so she often can't keep up with the pace.
at first, Ouyang Xiadan's body could not hold up at all, so he often ran to the hospital for a hanging injection after work.
however, after a stage of fierce competition and a sharp increase of pressure, Ouyang Xiadan's talent was greatly stimulated. Later, his work became more and more handy and his popularity increased day by day.
says: "every man is the architect of his destiny."
03
there is a good saying: the old woman eats persimmons.
only dare to haggle over things with people who are weaker than themselves, and such people often do not have a good life on their own.