People who are serious about themselves are beautiful.

"Everyone has his own best state." Our fat and thinness are largely determined by our genes, and before we become beautiful, the first thing we have to do is to accept ourselves. "

I wanted to share with you my experience of keeping fit on weekdays. But I have a lot on my mind when it comes to the controversial topic of whether I am fat or not.

I know that most girls will immediately say: steamed paste you are not fat! You're in good shape.

everyone is so sweet and sweet, girls, don't worry, I am very confident and I love my body very much. I look in the mirror and think I'm sexy and beautiful!

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how could I not like myself? I pay so much attention to diet and body management: eating clean food never allows my body to bear too much fat; I live a regular life and like exercise so that every muscle has a tight line. Although there is no milk bath massage care, I take good care of my body.

although there is no indicator of slim beauty in many people's minds, this is my best appearance. I got this article because I didn't lose weight to an "Internet celebrity".

Today I want to talk to you about a bigger topic. It's not just me.

when someone says that I don't know how to be a blogger with such thick legs, it won't hit my unusually strong heart. Because accepting good comments and bad comments is a part of my life, I will look at comments with a normal heart. But what about other girls like me, tall, big-boned, or with other bodies? Public opinion makes me reflect: how much pressure does this negative judgment put on girls? it's not that we're not perfect, it's just that we're different from stereotypes.

it is 2017, but how many people still can't live confidently, as if they owe society to accept comments because they are not born petite and slim.

the aesthetic singleness of Chinese people. After thinking about it, I think it has something to do with two things: one is racial oneness. although we have different nationalities, we are all Asian. There is a close relationship between racial diversity and aesthetic diversity. second, Confucius' Doctrine of the mean thought is deep-rooted. I don't want to follow the mainstream aesthetic style in particular.

the northern girls are much taller, while the southern girls are smaller. As a 172-skeleton girl from the north, I am genetically destined to have nothing to do with the bird. My friend jellyfish said: as a 173cm girl, people often say, "Oh, you have 110, you don't see it. I thought it was less than 100. where is the meat?" But this height is normal, isn't it?! Or, when you joke, you will say, "after all, you are very big."

Chinese people like to laugh and use "strong, big" to describe tall or plump girls. these words are translated into English without sarcasm: Big girl, thick, chubby, which have no derogatory meaning in English. Instead, everyone is praising the tall woman. Said they looked elegant and elegant.

to tell you the truth, 173 even for a small skeleton, 110 jin is very thin. And still, say she's big. It seems to be a mistake to be above average height.

there is no social tolerance for shorter girls. the life of a small, plump girl is no better than that of a tall child. Douban netizen your peach father said: the oneness and closeness of social culture extend to the aesthetic, what weight is either flat chest or short, it is really that the requirements of social culture for women are both narrow and harsh, what's wrong with the flat chest? What's wrong with being short? The degree of civilization is proportional to social inclusiveness.

cannot agree more.

I'm not making excuses for fat people. And I don't support people who are so obese and hold up that you are beautiful the way you are signing. I'm encouraging aesthetic diversity. within the range of health, is fat or not, each person has his judgment standard. The most important thing is to be yourself.

do I have a wrong aesthetic judgment? Is it because I am blindly confident that I can't feel fat and thin? of course, I can feel it, for example, when I returned home at the beginning of the year, my mother fed me 10 pounds! It took me half a year to lose weight.

how do I judge whether I am fat or thin? I see if my body is tight enough to see if there is any extra fat on my waist and belly. Girls are very sensitive to their bodies, and you can tell if your body is at its best every minute. Sitting in a chair is like a loose mass of meat, or is it full of energy and lightness? When I climbed the stairs for a while, I began to gasp, and when I couldn't react quickly when I played squash and my pants were tight, I knew it was time to lose weight.

and as the inscription says, how fat we are is largely determined by our genes. living well is the most important thing. my former roommate was very thin in his senior year and gradually became plump after work. She told me that she would be fat when she was happy. Thinking about the changes in her relationship and life in college, I think now he looks sunny and confident. Live a good life.

the aesthetic appreciation of foreign media is also very deformed, advocating thick lips, hips, and thin waist to the neglect of small girls, fortunately, Western women can not tolerate this situation, and new media gradually support diversity. blindly pursuing a kind of beauty is terrible in any culture. The healthy aesthetic is to celebrate our diversity.

not to talk about the world, the beauty of Chinese girls is also varied, ah

I and GE GE are both 172cm, but our bodies are very different. I am a girl with a large skeleton. My waist, span, feet, and shoulders are bigger than the grid. George is small and tall, so she is usually lighter than me. But we can't think who's in better shape just because of this difference. I like her wild waist because it shows a good waist-to-hip ratio, and she also likes my outline that I can hold up in some clothes.

Gege

I have a classmate named Annie, whose fragrance is soft and soft, which is typical of southern girls in literary works. Although fragrant and soft, live very dope, bareback show figure is not afraid, beautiful but inadvertently. I remember once, she was cooped up on the sofa, smiling at me while drinking wine, her long earrings and glasses matched very well. If I were a man, I just wanted to follow her and call them my little sister. her bones are full of soft but rebellious and bird-like amorous feelings, which can be regarded as another unique extreme of beauty.

Anne

there are many beautiful people in the world. Think of Bamboo's small waist and methodical way of speaking. When he thinks of Brother Shui's small body, he suddenly speaks quickly with big eyes, and his cheerful character crackles down like a string of raindrops on the banana leaves. When I think of Zhao Hunger coming to see me, there is a kind of personality that I am very kind to myself. Although I didn't get a chance to talk to Mai Mai, who is as tall as I am, I became her little girl when she smiled at me with her dog in her arms.

I can't wait to meet more beautiful girls who make my life feel good, but I know that these beautiful bloggers have received unkind comments behind them.

you can not appreciate or like it. However, We are all taking good care of our bodies, so why should someone come up and start telling us what to do?

different parents give birth to, why do we all need to be the same?!

I don't want to lower myself to belittle internet bullies. Happily, I can feel that public opinion is slowly improving, and everyone is learning to accept different beauty very quickly. The environment is becoming more and more friendly. The most important thing is for everyone to find clothes and lifestyles that suit them, and don't imitate others to do things that don't suit them. Live your rhythm beautifully and confidently. popular aesthetics is a ruler but not a standard. It is most important to live your best.

since I started to share my life with you, I have been very careful with what I say and how I cast pictures. I am not worried about my image. But for fear that some of my casual words will cause anxiety to lovely girls in some corner of the world. I'm not going to photoshop my life. That vulgar but inevitable interpersonal communication, that tedious firewood, rice, oil, and salt is a part of my life. I never overdo P map, I am afraid that the exaggerated long legs and small waist after P make some girls feel that only that is the standard beauty.

I have always thought that the point of sharing my life, sharing makeup, and sharing clothes is to encourage people to live confidently.

in the past, people often said that I was hacked. For a long time, no one laughed at me for hacking. On the contrary, I think I look good when I get a tan. Every time I read some dark-skinned girls say: I am as black as a steamed sauce. I like you very much. I also thought it was interesting. At least you saw another way of living.

when I first started as a blogger, I was said to be in bad shape, and I didn't skip meals or lose my inferiority complex. Instead, I continued to work hard to achieve my best. Over time, more people began to praise my figure. I think my persistence represents a victory for a group of girls like me. Although confident girls don't need me to represent anything, I have to slowly twist the social and cultural oneness with my attitude.

I hope you can broaden your horizons and tolerate the various beauties in this world.