"the other party withdrew a message."

A few of our friends gathered the other day, and Phyl said with a smile that Wechat's message withdrawal function is a great invention, and words can be taken back within a limited time.

Ginger bowed her head and stirred the coffee and said, "do you think the news has been withdrawn?"

she told us that she picked up her cell phone that day and was going to text her boyfriend. She found that in the chat interface with her boyfriend, there was a small gray print: "Tao withdrew a message." The time was four or five hours ago, and behind this line of text, there was no other chat.

"suddenly withdraw the message without any explanation, so there must be a problem. He thought I wouldn't know if he withdrew the news, but it just showed that he was hiding something from me. "

A withdrawn message tipped the fragile vase of love to the ground, breaking it into pieces, leaving only stinging fragments on the ground.

if you want to know what the withdrawn message represents, follow "meet Tomato" and reply withdraw in the background. you can view the full text.

Tomato is not only a self-media person, she also has multiple identities: medical staff, psychological counselor, member of the national emergency rescue team, director of the department of well-known third-class and first-class hospitals, recommended talent.

people who have seen her praise her for being beautiful, temperamental, warm, and interesting, but few people know that she once cried alone in the middle of the night to love the wrong person and suffered from very serious postpartum depression.

to get out of being lovelorn, she continues to improve herself, and to regulate postpartum depression, she studies psychology by herself. After work, she gets up at 5 o'clock every day and writes down everything with her notes.

she says that everyone has a past that they can't bear to look back on or regret, which is not important, but how to deal with it correctly. She wants to use her experience to help more people. She has created an original official account called "ID:yujianfanqie"

long-press the QR code to identify and follow the pain in love  

; the ups and downs of growing up; relationships; children's education. Tomatoes will use words to teach every girl what she must know in the process of self-growth and the second growth.

about marriage

Why are more and more women asking for a divorce? I think the main reason for divorce is the accumulation of countless hurdles that seem to be crossed but have never been crossed.

I made an in-depth analysis of my friend Muzi's divorce.

-- "divorce big data exposure: why do more and more women choose to divorce?" "

recently, I have often wondered: it is the same road, why do some people come happy and sweet? Some people come to suffer grievances and tears? Some people come here reluctantly to live to be 500? Some people are discouraged as they walk, hoping to die early in marriage.

I think, in addition to meeting people and having luck, it is more because each "I" has an essential difference in cognition and problem-solving ability in marriage.

in a word, the sooner you know some "hidden rules" on the way to marriage, the less you suffer, the more likely you are to be happy.

-"in marriage, you must understand the" hidden rules "!

gender psychology holds that men prefer complicated relationships, but women prefer single relationships. The difference between the two leads to the difference in their feelings.

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in most cases, a man does not want to divorce after having an affair, and he is willing to enjoy the happiness of others unless his wife is determined to divorce. However, the sad thing is that the man is cheating, but the woman is still desperately trying to fix it.

-- "the cruel truth that men cheat but women don't divorce"

about love

it's not necessarily that he fell in love with someone else, but that he let her down when she was expecting something and didn't give her a hand when she was vulnerable. Disappointment is accumulated day by day, leaving is a long decision.

the day I left Shanghai at the age of 25, I left him a note with only one sentence: "Sorry, I'm not going to love you anymore!"

-"Sorry, I'm not going to love you anymore."

A withdrawn message tipped the fragile vase of love to the ground, breaking it into pieces, leaving only stinging fragments on the ground.

even though the news is withdrawn, the feeling of intimacy can never go back. The news can be withdrawn, but what cannot be withdrawn is the bitterness left in the heart.

-- "the other party withdrew a message"

Girls often ask me: how can I find the right person? There is no only standard for "the right person" in love. This honey, other arsenic, what others think is right, is often not suitable for you.

keep practicing your EQ, taste, and judgment so as not to miss in front of a good fate and indulge in the wrong love. it is better to read people than to read people.

-"how do girls with high EQ fall in love?

about parenting, she answers all your puzzles about the education

she pays the most attention to team spirit in educating children.

in this family, it's not just anyone who says it alone. Mom and dad respect each other. When you decide something, what you say carries weight as well. More importantly, let your children know that they love you deeply, no matter whether they are gentle or strict. When you are in charge of the children, don't dismantle the other half!

-- "Chen Xiaochun teaches his children well: don't tear down your partner when taking care of your children."

people all say that people who commit suicide do not cherish life too much, but have they ever thought that as long as there is a little way to live, who is willing to leave this world from now on. People cannot empathize with the pain of being abandoned, nor can they understand the tiredness of living in a family without love but quarreling and slandering each other.

in the end, it is only the desire to be accompanied by a simple love. in the end, the love of the original family is the beginning of a child's happy life.

-"teenage girls commit suicide by jumping off a building: are parents harmful? "