To be a person with a story but not a sophisticated one
After going through desolation without losing innocence, it is the wisest skill.
I admire many people in my life, sages and great sages, great heroes of beauty, but as far as my relatives and friends are concerned, what I admire is my uncle.
my younger uncle is only about ten years older than me. At that time, I was seven or eight years old, and I was in an unpleasant period of childhood. I was so mischievous that the whole family could not hold me, but I was afraid of a cry from my uncle! My little uncle was seventeen or eighteen years old at that time, was in a rebellious period of youth, and was often called to fight in groups. Although the story in his mouth has always been how fierce he is, beating others to the teeth with one for ten, most of the time, I see him beaten soft like braised eggplant in the canteen.
once, in the middle of the night, my uncle came to my house to ask my mother for money. With a dusty face and a "red envelope" on his head, he opened his mouth:
"Sister, I have opened a ladle, and I have to pay for my medical expenses. Can you raise 50 yuan first?"
my uncle at that time, perming his black Dahlia curly hair and wearing water-washed bell-bottoms, was often beaten back, leaned against the corner of the cinema wall, and sucked his cigarette butt. Where the brother-in-law's dull sound was, no one paid any attention to him, and he didn't talk to anyone either. Until he saw me pass by, he rushed over coldly, lifted me, threw me in mid-air, caught me, and then threw me up again, as if doing broadcast gymnastics, with a big mouth, like a Mercedes-Benz in the field of hope.
after another few years, my uncle fell in love. The girl was as good-looking as Zhong Chuhong, and my little uncle was so happy every day that he gradually lost his interest in chopping people. At first, Zhong Chuhong was not interested in his younger uncle. he was not impatient and rode a big motorcycle every day, taking Zhong Chuhong for a ride or going to the disco. Perhaps over time, Zhong Chuhong said, that kind of black wavy curly hair looks like swaggering aquatic plants in the back seat of the motorcycle, like waving sleeves, like a cloud that is about to rain.
finally, when it was time to talk about marriage, Zhong Chuhong went to the street to find a fortune-teller without telling her uncle. My husband said that your future husband, who is a wild python, must be the material for prison in the future. Zhong Chuhong ran away tearfully and asked her little uncle to break up. The little uncle was calm and abnormal. After asking where the fortune-teller was, he sneered three times and said:
I have heard of this product. I have tried to cheat you out of money. If you don't believe me, go to him and ask him tomorrow!
that afternoon, my uncle found a brother and beat the fortune-teller until "sunset". The man was "heartbroken at the end of the world!" Zhong Chuhong went to the fortune-teller the next day to make a theory, which sure enough confirmed that the goods were "cheating money and leaving people" material. The wedding went on as scheduled, and the "wise and brave" uncle finally achieved his own "small bridge and flowing water family!"
in the early 1990s, my uncle left his job at a state-owned enterprise and went to the sea to do business. Because the younger uncle is a good friend in the business, and there is no shrewd calculation of the businessman, over the past few years, the business has been miserable, with only losses but no profits. He doesn't have any academic qualifications or skills, so he can only start with the most basic training stalls. "Zhong Chuhong" has given birth to my cousins and cousins one after another, and it costs money to raise children. My little uncle is anxious to see a suitable business, as long as he thinks there is oil and water. You have to stick a nose in it.
according to my incomplete statistics, my uncle sold jeans, clothing for the middle-aged and elderly, and all kinds of trinkets, messed with cosmetics, opened a car wash, dug sand and gravel, roasted mutton kebabs, sold cold beer, shot wedding videos, finished the billiard hall, taught break dancing, ran a snack bar, worked as a small tour guide, walked through Sanguan and six docks, and passed fox friends and dog friends.
because of boldness and diligence, my little uncle finally made some money. People begin to become shrewd in business. However, he is extremely generous to his family and friends, giving the younger generation a lot of lucky money every year.
when I was admitted to college, before I left, my little uncle specially came to give me a handful of money. He said if you need to spend money, ask your uncle for it. Be sure to study hard, don't learn that my uncle is uneducated, and you will be able to do small business all your life. Whenever I go home during the winter and summer vacation, my uncle must ask Aunt Zhong Chuhong to drag me to buy clothes. Nike Adi is still very fashionable at that time, but my aunt does not hesitate to spend a lot of money to package me as a sports tycoon.
my uncle said, "pick up a girl, you have to have a good outfit!"
but I know that my uncle was not rich at that time, and his life was tight, but as soon as his relatives and friends opened their mouths, he immediately appeared with hot banknotes.
entering the 21st century, my uncle, who runs a small business, meets an important person in his life.
it is said that the man was the boss of an oil refining company. It took several twists and turns to find out about his uncle.
the boss said, do you remember me? In 198X, I was in trouble. I lent you 100 yuan.
my uncle said I don't remember much about wood.
the boss said, now that I'm all right, I'd like to treat you to a good drink.
my uncle said, wood, stop drinking, I quit drinking a long time ago.
the boss said, all these years, you never wanted to ask me for a debt!
my uncle said wood is no big deal.
the boss said, Oh, you, I invited you. When did you rush to settle the bill first?
my uncle said, wood, wood, you are a guest from afar, it is time for me to enter the friendship of the landlord!
after several temptations, the boss found that the little uncle was the kind of careless, stunned, and loyal man who had been lost for a long time and immediately decided to draw the little uncle into his business circle.
in this way, my uncle was promoted by an honorable person because he inadvertently did a good thing more than a decade ago. since then, his business has been booming again, and he soon has his own oil refining company in the port of Tianjin.
my developed uncle doesn't spend a lot of money. My aunt said, your little uncle is an old-money junkie who earns money. I can't wait for the code to be flat, but it's safe to sleep on it and roll on it. A pair of trousers must be worn out before they are willing to buy a new one. The air ticket for the holiday in Hainan was too expensive, so I had to take a train for more than 30 hours to get there. I have been driving a second-hand Elantra for several years, but I have only recently replaced it with Audi.
that time, my uncle drove his new Audi and took me for a ride. On the way, That's little uncle couldn't stop showing off to me as a child:
? Nice back push!
how about it? if I borrow you to play, I can't hang a girl without a good car!
however, my uncle is extraordinarily generous to his family. When the younger generation gets married, he often delivers a house and a car. He still spared no effort to support his friend when he was in trouble. When he had a family dinner, Scud must be the first to reach for his wallet. His elders were hospitalized, and he quietly paid all his medical bills.
over the past few years, the whole family has contributed money and efforts to greet the families and unite the young and old. No matter how rich he is, he still looks like a humble little brother to his elder brother and sister, and he has never looked forward to being rich and arrogant. In front of the younger generation, they do not point fingers. On the contrary, Liangchong's life mentors talk less and teach more practical things. They have become the best example in our eyes.
having been in business for many years, my uncle is becoming more and more mature. But his pure mind toward his friends, family, and life has not changed at all because of the years and life. He is a man with a story but not a sophisticated one.
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the great master said, "hold on to the simple and honest way of dealing with the world!" A cultured person does not pay attention to smooth things, but maintains a simple, open-minded personality; well-versed in the world but not sophisticated, is the kindest and mature. After going through desolation without losing innocence, it is the wisest skill.