You look like my future girlfriend.
I'm a good judge of people.
fall in love
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sometimes you think that falling in love is a one-person thing?
not really.
the relationship between two people is related to two people, but sometimes it is not all about two people. We have passed the age of deep attachment and gradually become independent. No matter how soft and sensitive we are inside, we become much stronger and stronger on the surface. thinking about many things will also become more realistic, thinking about everything, again and again, to consider whether or not to choose. The same is true of feelings, we miss a lot of relationships, all in our student days, we have friends who let us know each other's roots, and when we meet new people again, we always have to listen to other people's opinions, so sometimes, friends around each other also play a decisive role in the love of two people.
if you are lucky enough, the boy or girl you meet, his friends, must also be nice people, and good friends must be people who can point out each other's shortcomings.
my friend Xiao A, is a person with a quick temper who can hold back tears to a certain extent. She got a new boyfriend last year, which has been more than two years since her last love. She has just entered the world of two people, and she doesn't seem to know how to deal with their quarrel or gentle relationship.
once, she and her boyfriend quarreled because they agreed to get off work in the evening and the boy went to pick her up, but the boy had something to do and forgot to tell Xiao A. as a result, Xiao Awaited for him in the cold weather for nearly an hour, and the boy didn't answer the phone. then she called his friend, who was also his colleague, and then he said, don't worry. We were just in a meeting. He may have muted, "how could I forget to tell you in advance? I'll talk about him." After a while, Xiao A's boyfriend called her, said he was sorry, and then said something very irritating. He said, "I forgot you". The boy is just stupid, but he has a low EQ to say that. Xiao A quarreled with him, saying that I could tell you in advance if you didn't come to pick me up. I didn't have to let you answer it. I would just take a taxi home myself, but the other party didn't say a word after that. This boy is the cold war type, he always feels that there is a contradiction, that is, the cold girl may automatically get better in two days, and the result is counterproductive. I really can't accept this type of cold war.
the result has been two days later, and the boy hasn't sent any Wechat or phone call to Xiao A. it's bearable. This character will certainly make the girl feel that she doesn't pay enough attention to her, but in fact, the boy is also very uncomfortable at home. "it's a typical love incompetence," friends say. Xiao A has no choice but to ask her boyfriend's friend for help, and she can't sit still. What does this mean? it's his fault, and he still has a negative attitude. Then his friend went to assist. His friend, a boy with high EQ, chatted with him all night, telling him whether he should not avoid this problem passively and that the boy should be more magnanimous. So Xiao A's boyfriend became enlightened and slowly began to actively face all kinds of contradictions in their relationship, and every time there was some unhappiness, his friend was always able to give some advice, and Xiao A was very grateful.
sometimes our relationship is like this. Those who are in the situation are confused, but the onlookers are clear. Will fall into some difficulty to get out of the contradiction or strange circle, a word is not in line with their mood, will also be a little angry, but if there is a person around you can help you, you can solve the confusion.
there are a lot of things like this. For example, my college classmate Xiao E is going to marry her boyfriend of five years this year. Her boyfriend is a musician. Her proposal is particularly romantic. Her boyfriend wrote a song. Then when the two went out to play in the past few years, he learned some photography skills, often took a video with a camera, and finally cut it into a girlfriend's daily routine. At the back, there were many blessings from friends, whether they knew or not, there were about 50 people. He packed a small hall and showed this paragraph like a movie. Little E was so moved.
if it were me, I would also be very moved. Sometimes, can get the recognition and blessing of each other's friends, just like getting the support of family, you will feel at ease, your feelings in the peak or trough, there will be someone to guide you, whether it is to guide each other and their own invisible mistakes, or not to be carried away by excessive sweetness, these are all assists of love.
you haven't noticed that we still have a lot of love assists. Valentine's Day is coming, many couples choose to date in the evening, the night is an ambiguous starter, alcohol, flowers, and chocolates will make each other look more attractive, but now friends are going to celebrate their own Valentine's Day, and the tipsy moment needs only you and me. At this time, we need the assistance of Didi Didi. Didi Didi can not only provide us with the service of Didi Didi, on this day, will also give couples the eternal flowers of rose only. you only love one person all your life. I will be safe all your life. Didi Didi is the guardian of love, and it is also a love assist that you are not aware of.